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yenho

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發表於 04-11-23 22:43 |只看該作者

Re: 我就來發顛...

其實嘔奶噴奶真係好平常, 我個b 現在7 個月, 佢由出世時已經你成日嘔奶噴奶, 仲要係個b 到出, 後來我先發覺係因為我整得d 奶瓶孔太大, 佢根本受唔到, 所以會咁, 不過到現在佢都有時會有嘔奶, 係因為佢食飽我抱佢個肚位, 令佢嘔. 我bb 都係唔係好肯食奶, 你不如都試下加一餐糊仔啦, 我都係咁, 其實bb 6 個月已經可以加1餐架啦, 我現在都會一星期比一次小小既白bread 佢食, 唔好比蛋糕就ok 啦! 其實所有新手媽咪都係好多野唔懂架啦, 我都係第一次做媽咪, 不過係生前我同我老公都睇好多bb 書, 上網搵資料...與其你係bk 同人講唔識湊, 唔開心, 不如上網搵下資料睇下啦! 再唔係你pm 我, 睇下我有無咩可以答到你啦!

我叫祉延, 係2004年4月18日出世啦~~2004年8月10日, 我第一次識反身啦!! 2004年12月25日, 我識坐啦!!2005年9月1日, 我有16 隻牙啦!!
18/4/04 2.675kgs 29/7/04 5.5 kgs 61cm23/1/05 9.55 kgs 70 cm28/3/05 10 kgs 72 cm6/5/05 10 kgs 74 cm26/10/05 11.1 kgs 79 cm

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kiumama

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發表於 04-11-23 23:56 |只看該作者

Re: 我就來發顛...

maomao

比心機唔好氣餒我支持妳嫁
我知妳係一個冇經驗既媽咪
咁妳要努力學習,継續堅持
唔好放棄樣樣親力親為
囡囡一定會知一定會跟番妳
奸爸爹 .......

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mycathy

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發表於 04-11-24 13:30 |只看該作者

Re: 我就來發顛...

maomao,
我覺得妳要俾多d信心自己, 我囡囡都試過對工人笑唔對我笑, 又試過喊到七彩我都堅持唔俾工人抱, 我驚工人一抱佢就收聲, 以後都係咁點算, 所以雖然我有工人, 但我係屋企既時候, 工人係唔使湊bb既, 最多幫我沖奶奶, 拿尿片, 因為我覺得工人己經對左bb成日, 如果我唔爭取每晚果幾個小時既時間, bb一定唔肯我。所以有一段時間我無晒自由, 每日放工返屋企就抱實個囡, 有關囡囡既一切我都自己來。值到我一係屋企, 囡囡就要我唔要工人既時候我先開始放開d。
妳不防試下咁樣, 一放工就唔好俾個工人掂個女(誇張小釔), 盡量咩都自己做, 就算餵奶,玩等等, 都唔好俾工人玩埋一份, 開頭妳囡囡可能會好抗拒, 但我相信都係時間關係。
妳都見過我單獨帶紫鈺出街架, 相信自己既能力, 有一日妳都一樣得架。兩母女單獨相處真係好開心架。
雖然我同妳都係無咩經驗, 但係我囡囡大d, 妳有咩都可以問我架。
另外, 我個女成九個幾月都試過喊到嘔奶, 所以每次佢大喊我一定抱到佢好直, 同埋佢一路喊我就一路同佢掃背(向下掃), 咁會無咁易嘔。

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蕭夫人信箱

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發表於 04-11-25 15:49 |只看該作者

Re: 我就來發顛...

maomao
i dunno what i have to say, but i BELIEVE u must handle in 1 day ....

you may ask your mate not day off for coming weekend Or you take one day off to see how she takes care of the baby. To find out why the baby doesn't take milk when you are feeding the girl.
At night after work, feed her the night milk by yourself

至於你件餅, 我覺得有d咩冇理既你可以不理, 自己湊點呀女, 佢唔幫手由得佢, 唔好同佢嘈. 其實你件餅都鍚女女, 不過可能his pressure also suffered from ar b lar.
呀女會知道邊個對佢好, 邊個對佢冷淡.

my fd also has same case with you, she also gave him out 6 weeks early than the due date. she feels very hard to take care of him, after feed him milk, he must 噴哂出黎, 仲要一定要抱住, 放番落床就cry, 又係唔肯食奶, 如是者都半年啦. but within 1/2 year, my fd didnt give up to take care of him by HERSELF. everynite she off-duty, she must back to home to take care even 半夜三更. so u try try to space much time to take care your b by yourself, dont 依賴yr mate alot unless 你自己都頂唔順.

besides, i want to know if there is a doctor to follow up your daughter regularly ??? since her weight is out of the curve alot. if there is not, i suggest you to consulate doctor and have a regular checking.

i support u ga ....

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song238

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發表於 04-11-25 18:51 |只看該作者

Re: 我就來發顛...

Hi maomao,
My daughter is also 7 mths old, just take it easy, don't stress yourself when your baby is crying, try taking a deep breath, calm yourself down cos baby can sense our emotions and if they know we are tense they will feel insecure and cry louder.
Let her get attach to you first, how about getting some story books with plenty of colourful pictures and read to your baby before going to sleep everynight let her listen to your voice more, give her hugs and kisses that your maid will not do normally. I am sure she will be so attach to you in no time. Remember, don't stress yourself !!! Take care.

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fofo

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發表於 04-11-26 04:21 |只看該作者

Re: 我就來發顛...

loumaomao

2個鐘一餐奶(少食多餐)?會唔會密左d?佢每次飲幾多安士？
佢唔飲奶,可能未肚餓,不如試下隔3-4hrs餵la,若佢肚餓,可能會飲得快d!
且bb係好敏感的,若你成日都咁緊張,可能令bb不安！盡量放鬆下,比個寧静的環境,bb會好凑d!

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loumaomao

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發表於 04-11-26 11:50 |只看該作者

Re: 我就來發顛...

再多謝各位既回應
fofo
佢飲得好慢,每次只飲3oz(1hr),跟住要抖抖,所以要2-3hr再飲過
If she can drink 5oz at one time (1hr), then we can wait for 4hours to feed her again.

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JessMama

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發表於 04-11-29 00:10 |只看該作者

Re: 我就來發顛...

Dear Loumaomao,

I read your messages, but I'm a little bit worried.

1. If your baby weighs 13 pounds at age of 7 months, it is quite BELOW average! You should go to see a child Dr., real quick pls.

2. There should be problem if your baby is taking 1 hr to drink 3 oz at her age. Is she also drinking so slow when fed by your maid as well? If not, then it is ok. But if this is the case, try to check if the hole of nipple is too small? or there is some problem of her airway or stomach? Go to check with Dr.

3. I think it is a good idea to go to your sister-in-law's (someone more experienced) place for a few weekends (or even for a week if you can take some annual leave) to see where is the problem. To see whether it is the problem of your caring, your baby's problem or both. Remember, you are trying to solve the problem, forget what your husband said if he is not supporting you.

4. Also remember, sometimes it is not totally your fault. Some babies are very easy to be taken care of, but some babies are more demanding. I think you are doing well already. Just take your patience.

5. One suggestion: If she need 2-3 bottles each time, just buy lots & lots of bottles & steam all of them at night time. So you don't have to clean them in day time while you are holding your baby.

** my experience: My daughter Jessica took 1-2 hr to drink milk when she was born till ~ 5-6 months. When she was born, she take 1/2 hr to drink 1st oz, then > 1 hr for 2nd oz. And she had to breathe very hard after taking every 1-2 sips at 2nd oz. Not until she was 1 month old, we found out her airway was narrow, so she had to breathe very hard during feeding. Then her condition slowly improved at ~ after 6 months when her airway grew bigger.

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loumaomao

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發表於 04-11-29 14:52 |只看該作者

Re: 我就來發顛...

Jessmama
Many thanks...

1. The government hospital is still following up her case, until she is aged 2 years old.

2. Even my maid feeds her, it takes also 1/2 to one hour. I don't think there is problem with the nipple hole as we now use level 2 and 3. We use Dr Brown's bottles already to minimize sucking gas.

5. I have got lots of milk bottles than usual but if she doesn't drink the milk within one hour. I will throw them away and use a clean bottle to make another bottle for her. That's why I have to kept cleaning my bottles.

Thank you for your support.