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本帖最後由 Jayelle 於 14-10-14 12:50 編輯

[size=15.1999998092651px]我女2.5歲, 手好多, 成日搞呢搞路, 唔係佢嘅野(即我, C6, 姐姐)更加8掛要搞, 就算講咩都無用, 佢都係忍唔到手要搞(搞親就整爛

)
咩都鐘意自己做, 唔鐘意人幫, 但係專心唔到, 未完成就分心去左第樣野度, 對新事物好快厭倦, 坐唔定(係幾秒都唔得, 屁股係尖架

), 精力又多, 每日諗節目去entertain佢都諗到頭爆

大家有冇好方法改善?

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精力旺盛就帶去公園放下電，成日睇住佢唔俾佢搞嘢，整爛嘢就要鬧下先得

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引用：精力旺盛就帶去公園放下電，成日睇住佢唔俾

原帖由 wahiuma 於 14-10-14 發表
精力旺盛就帶去公園放下電，成日睇住佢唔俾佢搞嘢，整爛嘢就要鬧下先得

唔止公園啦，就嚟環遊全香港，可憐我大住37週肚仲要做導遊

（早幾日先去完游水，攰到我

），姐姐唔識路，成日去同一個公園，佢會悶，唔玩

看唔住，每日清醒時間最少12個鐘，無時無刻都搞，無時無刻都話，日日最少打一次

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我女都好手多，但佢又怕死，有啲野嚇吓佢就唔會搞，例如同佢講茶壺好熱，問佢試唔試下摸就唔會搞。

佢都成日搞我啲野，例如鍾意搞銀包，我就番個唔用嘅銀包，放啲過期coupon入去扮錢俾佢玩。好多唔用嘅野都成為佢嘅玩具，例如細個用的匙羹和碗用來玩煮飯仔，星星餅樽玩保齡球入筷子用腳踢，舊奶樽沖涼時用來倒水。有時會叫佢做家務，幫手晾衫，洗水果，搽麵包，或者睇我煮野食，叫佢幫手拎下野，總之要安排啲工作俾佢做。

佢又係好鍾意咩都自己做，有時要自己著外套穿唔到就喊但唔俾人幫，可以喊十五分鐘至俾人幫佢，我會同佢講作細個，穿到隻手已經好叻之類。

佢都精力旺盛，我就俾佢玩滑板車和三輪車踩去公園放電，再踩番屋企，都幾攰架。

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引用：我女都好手多，但佢又怕死，有啲野嚇吓佢就

原帖由 Potato001 於 14-10-14 發表
我女都好手多，但佢又怕死，有啲野嚇吓佢就唔會搞，例如同佢講茶壺好熱，問佢試唔試下摸就唔會搞。

佢都成 ...

我女係唔怕死，sad

今日先學人刷牙然後吞唒d牙膏

已經每日好多野比佢做，基本上所有家務佢都有份參與，但其餘時間繼續喪搞野

有坐三輪車冇滑板車，未識踩

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引用：樓主要明白，2.5歲小朋友手多多攪野係\\\"探

原帖由 DicksonMaMa 於 14-10-15 發表
樓主要明白，2.5歲小朋友手多多攪野係"探索學習"嘅正常行為
我仔25個月大，一樣手多多，如果唔係即時危險 ...

我明呀，所以想睇下大家有冇好提議比佢滿足手嘅欲望又唔會搞亂檔

我女係唔驚死，危險野照玩，打爛野仲要再撥亂d，係stop唔到，成個人忘唒形，要打先stop到，已經好多大人野比佢參與，但佢好難控制，講道理/tum/分散注意力/鬧都冇用，成日逼到我要打先安樂

同埋每日十幾個鐘，真係邊有咁多野比佢做，而且唔可能完全放手比佢自己嚟，始終要大人看住，真係玩死我同姐姐

另一樣野係，可能因為我女係比較嗲嘅人，鐘意draw attention，佢令我覺得佢想個個人都錫佢、注意佢，好似想成個地球圍住佢轉咁，對大人先係咁，唔知係咪天生公主病

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引用：樓主要明白，2.5歲小朋友手多多攪野係\\\"探

原帖由 DicksonMaMa 於 14-10-15 發表
樓主要明白，2.5歲小朋友手多多攪野係"探索學習"嘅正常行為
我仔25個月大，一樣手多多，如果唔係即時危險 ...

我女濕身係唔會唔舒服，仲奸笑，所有野佢都好似好興奮咁，倒水落拖板仲隊隻手埋去

，你話佢聽會死，佢冇反應，因為佢唔知死係乜，除左打到好痛之外，冇其他consequence係可以令佢卻步，但我唔想成日打佢

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引用：你冇比佢返N班？學校有齊教具滿足佢地手多&

原帖由 DicksonMaMa 於 14-10-15 發表
你冇比佢返N班？
學校有齊教具滿足佢地手多&心理需要，群體學習&守紀律，呢啲野屋企永遠教唔到！
我仔返全 ...

我女讀Montessori，返3hrs only，校長話佢仲細，未可以返全日

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Jayelle 發表於 14-10-14 13:27
唔止公園啦，就嚟環遊全香港，可憐我大住37週肚仲要做導遊（早幾日先去完游水，攰到我），姐 ...

對付咁嘅小朋友又真係幾辛苦，依家細個就要好好教育佢，唔係大個就更難教

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Agreed w/DicksonMaMa

多手係因為好奇/ NAUGHTY 要分清楚...
好奇: 俾佢試多D, 玩多D, 只要唔受傷, 俾佢TRY TRY LAW
去公園唔單止玩SWING..,..,.俾D指令佢做e.g. 跑圈
屋企玩練力膠/ 泥膠...
我試過搬晒D PILLOW 同床玉O係客廳, 俾仔仔跑同"達"
可以玩 Pillow war

Montessori also encourage the kids to learn from playing!

NAUGHTY: 就要教 i.e say " No,No"/ 企CORNER/ 無得食糖/C TV....

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本帖最後由 bosch 於 14-10-15 17:21 編輯

你俾佢去讀Montessori , 但你明唔明Montessori 既教法? 似乎你要佢響學校所受既教育同屋企既有分別? 我對Montessori 既認識唔算好深, 對我而言 Montessori 只係一般外國人既教法, 華人家庭較難全盤接受和實行得到. 唔同地方有唔同規距係好正常, 個個家庭都係咁, 一個家總冇可能冇家規. 你俾佢響出面 learn from playing, 但響屋企又唔多接受佢咁既行為, 會唔會有太大矛盾?

又要馬兒好, 又要馬兒不吃草, 好難.... 你俾佢玩, 就預左佢會搞亂搞, 乜都要整好耐. 你想佢玩得黎又唔會煩到你, 咁佢要年紀大d 至得, 或者真係睇每個人既性格. 你有冇叫佢試範下佢響學校做過d 乜?

佢鍾意自己做, 咁咪由得佢, 佢一定係做得慢. 佢錯左或者做得唔o岩, 咪由頭黎過.

小朋友冇危險意識, 到6歲至開始知咩叫危險. 咁你就要俾一個安全環境俾佢. 點解會有杯水響拖板附近? 你有冇要佢飲晒d 水至走開, 或者唔好拎住d 水通屋走? 如果呢個年紀知道咩叫死, 你仲驚呀...

自由教法唔等於冇規則, 呢d 野絕對可以響屋企教到, 不過佢仲細, 仲要時間去教, 所以你要堅持. 特別係將來細b 出左世, 佢更加要聽你既指令.

唔止因為佢年紀係乜都要探索, 而家你大緊肚, 佢要吸引你去注意, 第日你生左bb, 佢會更加要吸引你注意.

你粗身大細, 情緒都會有變化, 我果陣都打大仔打不停, 而家生夠同埋知d 細路想點至收左火.... 所以你都要放鬆d, 加油!!

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引用：Quote:Jayelle+發表於+14-10-14+13:27+唔止

原帖由 wahiuma 於 14-10-15 發表
對付咁嘅小朋友又真係幾辛苦，依家細個就要好好教育佢，唔係大個就更難教
...

努力緊

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引用：Agreed+w/DicksonMaMa多手係因為好奇/+NAUG

原帖由 Jumama24 於 14-10-15 發表
Agreed w/DicksonMaMa

多手係因為好奇/ NAUGHTY 要分清楚...

安全範圍內能夠try都比佢try唒，佢宜家想try d唔安全嘅

我會同姐姐講同佢去玩要比佢跑多d，thx

Pillow war我地都玩過，不過佢麻麻地識玩

Tv/candy不嬲都冇比，no佢一時時先聽，naughty corner我淨係可以困佢喺廚房然後鎖安全欄，其他地方佢會走左去，廚房都唔可以成日鎖，阻住姐姐做野

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引用：+本帖最後由+bosch+於+14-10-15+17:21+編輯

原帖由 bosch 於 14-10-15 發表
本帖最後由 bosch 於 14-10-15 17:21 編輯

你俾佢去讀Montessori , 但你明唔明Montessori 既教法? 似乎 ...

正確少少，Montessori 係learn from practical life experiences。within a boundary she can freedom to play/do what she wanted to do，我都同校長傾過，佢天生too wild，beyond左normal level/boundary，基本上能夠做嘅家務都做唒，不過佢喺其餘時間仲係好似隻手比野咬咁，玩得梗係比佢玩，亦預左佢亂，不過佢搞d唔玩得嘅，主要係電器、電子產品，佢係拆/打爛

個拖板係廁所裏面，而廁所有水龍頭，所以咪侯我地無為意自己玩水整濕唒囉

，我地已經收埋，佢自己摷出來，有吸果d安全插頭，不過佢自己掹埋

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引用：+本帖最後由+bosch+於+14-10-15+17:21+編輯

原帖由 bosch 於 14-10-15 發表
本帖最後由 bosch 於 14-10-15 17:21 編輯

你俾佢去讀Montessori , 但你明唔明Montessori 既教法? 似乎 ...

校長都話佢仲細，要時間，我想睇下jm有冇好方法啫，唔想好似等運到咁

同埋我就生了，如果唔搵方法攻善，到時做死姐姐

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Your daughter is just like mine. All the destructive behaviour. She is 2.5 yrs old n is attending n class traditional style and got comments from sch bus nanny n teachers she is rebellious n throws toys at classmates and refuses to apologize. She will go in every shop in the mall and push the clothes rack and kick the road blocks. Use her hands touch all bins and kiss the shop windows. At home she ll throw our phones and step on it. Yes she ll pour water out the bucket n put her feet in it while we are busy cleaning the floor. Throw things out the house and throw chair to the tv. Everything is broken in the house. We are scared to bring her out. I visited nurse in public hospital she suggests to me see play therapist for her but private one is expensive. I hve headache too. Im a working mom n i have to go home n beat her everyday after work. We hve no maid and my parents now are scared to continue to take care of her coz she destroys their house too. Btw my daughter only sleeps 8-9 hours a day in total since very young, she just doesnt want to sleep n doesnt need that much too. So we spend most of time to fight with her... What shall we do?

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原帖由 tinyangel 於 14-10-15 發表
Your daughter is just like mine. All the destructive behaviour. She is 2.5 yrs old n is attending n ...

Your case is much worser than mine

Is she attending half day or full day nursery?

I think you need a helper, and let her bring your girl to park/playground/open space, so there will be nothing that she can destroy. I\'m thinking to ask my helper to hang out more with my daughter, though it would bring heavy workload to her, but I have no choice

Another thing is, you have to adjust your girl\'s sleeping habit. My girl\'s principal said children need to sleep at 7pm as the time before 12 is crucial to their brain development and indirectly affect their emotion. My girl slept at 12-1 before. I\'ve tried for 3 weeks and now she can sleep at 8:45-9:30pm. I didn\'t see obvious emotional improvement yet, but at least we have more private time at night.

If you do so, your girl will possibly sleep for longer hours, like 11hrs. You guys can have more rest time.

Hope it can help

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引用：Quote:原帖由+tinyangel+於+14-10-15+發表Y

原帖由 Jayelle 於 14-10-16 發表
Your case is much worser than mine

Is she attending half day or full day nursery?

Thanks....We tried for days to put her to bed i sleep next to her in darkness from 9 .30 pm however she ll finally fall into sleep ard 11.30 its so much burden for us as we hve to work n all time are spent on bed with her. We finally gave up. Every morning she struggles to wake in tears and scream. And she is so low energy level after school ( half day nursery) we can only carry her walking in mall at night and still she ll sleep ard 11-11.30. I just cant put her to bed at 9 even she has a cold n taking western medicine she is not sleepy at all. We give her a nap for 15-30 mins in afternoon but she will still sleep at 11. I asked sch teacher if she falls asleep at class they say she is active n never fall asleep at sch bus (1 hr trip ) n sch. I really dont understand. I think she has bad temper due to lack of sleep ( try to illuminate psychological issues) but its a loop and never ends. I ll try bring her to playground at night. Its tiring for old grandparents to bring her to park ... So i rather do it myself at night. Thanks for your help

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