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原文章由 bearbear2003 於 16 12 2008 09:30 發表

I do not agree. I really want to be full time mami to take care my baby, my little boy say many times would like mami to take care him, however, I have to paid expenses to my parent too. So I have ...

唔該你搞清楚！
唔係我呻冇＄，而係我地俾人有盡手段去陰＄～～所以我至上o黎講！

供養父母，天經地義。不過我認為做人應該公平ｄ，冇理由要個新抱將親家ｄ養老錢都謀過o黎（亦都唔係「謀」咁簡單）o者！

一直以來我唔係守株待兔，我係有ｄ微薄收入咖～！只係連爹娘都俾唔夠，何況夫家ｄ人？？？

而且事件已告一段落，我老公終於清醒，唔再俾位上頭攝入o黎「打劫」（係我老公用o既詞彙，佢咁講之前我都未識咁用）！

有ｄ回應稍為有ｄ建設性。例如提議有埋個ｂ去打工～～我都好想！亦都唔係所有工種都容許。好彩ｂｂ夠生性，又夠醒目，暑假時佢可以跟我去做model／「小助教」～～現在佢仲開始自己學人教課，「維妙維肖」咁添～

現在一齊捱，對於溫室長大o既老公係幾辛苦～～不過佢冇埋怨過！
總算半脫離困境吧？

雖然有ｄ評論比較激進．．．不過：如果冇心睇的話，都唔會講（鬧）得咁肉緊啦～所以我都唔會嬲。

o係呢度多謝各方好心之人、友善之人、肉緊之人o既關心!!

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bearbear2003

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原文章由 muiskyie 於 08-12-16 12:37 發表
唔該你搞清楚！
唔係我呻冇＄，而係我地俾人有盡手段去陰＄～～所以我至上o黎講！

供養父母，天經地義。不過我認為做人應該公平ｄ，冇理由要個新抱將親家ｄ養老錢都謀過o黎（亦都唔係「謀」咁簡單）o者！

一直以來我唔係守株待兔，我係有ｄ微薄收 ...

It is the same. If you rent the apartment, costs shuld be around HK$7500 include managementfree, water, town ga, etc. What's the difference? This should be paid by you even the flat is owned by your 62 & 99. The money is not for your 62 &99. Or you move out from the flat.
On the other hand that hk$4000 for 62 & 99 each month is not able to cover all their expenses. So just paid back to them.

To be fair, you husband only paid $5000 to your 62 & 99, not HK$13000.

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你唔想將bb俾男家照顧，可唔可以將bb俾你父母照顧，自己再返工？

雖然你老公而清醒，始終佢都唔係賺得多，如果你可以幫輕下，遲些少bb大個都多個錢。

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原文章由 hv245 於 16 12 2008 13:39 發表
係呀, 我都係咁話. 根本佢生活開支, 供樓d洗費唔可以入埋人地數. 估唔到幾個月都仲係咁, 仲要好似大獲全勝咁. sorry 不敢苟同.

唔該你唔好本末倒置！一直以來就係因為人地將一切開支～～連同唔係我地份內事o既都入埋我地數，所以先有問題出現！

如果ｄ開支係我地o既，我仲駛乜上o黎講???

莫非

你係佢地o既間諜？

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sweetieboy

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好媽媽勳章

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發表於 08-12-17 13:14 |只看該作者

成日講還款, 咁其實你地借左6299幾多 $??

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2018復活節勳章好媽媽勳章醒目開學勳章

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發表於 08-12-17 13:41 |只看該作者

原文章由 muiskyie 於 08-7-22 22:07 發表

９９一直都係少奶奶，６２對佢同個仔都堅守住類似「唔好俾人認為佢老婆同個仔冇溫飽」咁o既原則。即使我大肚，都要我睡床邊、話個仔會跌出去，同埋幫手打掃新居(側邊仲係裝修梗...)。。。

居住方面，6299一向都抗拒「低級」，不過經 ...

即係一班其實唔係好富貴嘅人, 喺度扮上等人啦....

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睇佐樓主既POST, 只係大致明白佢既6299一值吸佢地既錢!!
我真係唔明白, 點解有0的C9會睇得自己唔出去做野就無咩發言權咁底微! 唔做野就代表無貢獻咩?? 原來仲有0的咁睇唔起家庭主婦既"都市人"....
睇番樓主既問題, 都係因為6299唔會體量個仔既經濟環境, 雖然係幫佢個仔結婚買樓, 但有能力又自願既咪幫囉, 幫佐都唔望個仔會還啦, 一係當初咪鬼幫!! 如果我係樓主, 就要學下佢6299啦, 吸番個C6既錢, 有幾多吸幾多, 睇下個C6對自己有幾多分感情啦!!吸盡曬佢, 邊有錢比其他人姐

不過我好在唔會靠6299...買樓結婚生仔, 佢地通通無幫過, 所以唔駛睇人面色!但以我既性格, 比面色我睇, 連個孫都無得佢見呀

抱住個仔孤獨終老啦!

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發表於 08-12-17 16:31 |只看該作者

睇完都唔係好明, 樓主係咪覺得6299有錢, 點解要迫佢老公供樓之外,比哂6299生活費丫?

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發表於 08-12-17 16:39 |只看該作者

Simple way, 樓主 give back your 62 & 99's flat for their living, sold out居屋 and return all the money to your 62 & 99 give to you. Then your husband only required to give living expenses to your 99 & 62.

You never answer us that 其實你地借左6299幾多 $

No one say full time Mum does not have right to talk, they are equal for working mom and full time mum. But you cannot complain $ give to your 99 & 62 because the money is not earn by you and why you accept the $ from your 99 & 62. You can reject it and improve your life by your self. 無錢就要面對現實嫁啦

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發表於 08-12-17 16:43 |只看該作者

Because 樓主 live in 99 & 62's private flat. Then 樓主 buy another for 99 & 62 living, so 樓主 have to 供樓.

原文章由 MK2006 於 08-12-17 16:31 發表
睇完都唔係好明, 樓主係咪覺得6299有錢, 點解要迫佢老公供樓之外,比哂6299生活費丫?

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發表於 08-12-17 17:01 |只看該作者

咁樓主住果層樓佢老公都有名架, 供都應該, 遲早都係佢地啦. 至於比家用, 真係個個唔同喎

原文章由 bearbear2003 於 08-12-17 16:43 發表
Because 樓主 live in 99 & 62's private flat. Then 樓主 buy another for 99 & 62 living, so 樓主 have to 供樓.

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發表於 08-12-17 22:24 |只看該作者

好感謝有熱心人士勾番以前ｄposts出o黎！不過之前ｄ銀碼已經唔係現在o既數字喇。

一言難盡...其實唔係我反口, 祇係我未有時間去update個「真相」出來o者～

就o係幾個月前，有ｄ理財顧問聽o左我個case，認為應該問清楚情況。一向唔過問丈夫財政o既我「細」問之下---至知道，原來個「事實」係咁峰迴路轉．．．一切，係由個銀行電話開始．．．

原文章由 JOESPHINE 於 17 12 2008 16:14 發表

睇佐樓主既POST, 只係大致明白佢既6299一值吸佢地既錢!!
我真係唔明白, 點解有0的C9會睇得自己唔出去做野就無咩發言權咁底微! 唔做野就代表無貢獻咩?? 原來仲有0的咁睇唔起家庭主婦既"都市人"....
睇番樓主既問題, 都係因為6299唔會體量個仔既經濟環境, 雖然係幫佢個仔結婚買樓, 但有能力又自願既咪幫囉, 幫佐都唔望個仔會還啦, 一係當初咪鬼幫!! 如果我係樓主, 就要學下佢6299啦, 吸番個C6既錢, 有幾多吸幾多, 睇下個C6對自己有幾多分感情啦!!吸盡曬佢, 邊有錢比其他人姐
不過我好在唔會靠6299...買樓結婚生仔, 佢地通通無幫過, 所以唔駛睇人面色!但以我既性格, 比面色我睇, 連個孫都無得佢見呀抱住個仔孤獨終老啦!

終於有人睇得明我個處境！！！

原來係６２欠o左銀行好多$$$$$$$呀...(真的)以「都市人」自稱o既佢，同佢父親已經「冇關係」o架喇...更多細節唔方便「爆」啦...所以...咪俾個機會我地ｄ晚輩捱下囉…

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原文章由 MK2006 於 17 12 2008 17:01 發表
咁樓主住果層樓佢老公都有名架, 供都應該, 遲早都係佢地啦. 至於比家用, 真係個個唔同喎

中肯。
不過佢地歸佢地，我地o既＄就係佢o地o既＄！所以唔會「遲早都係我地」咖！！

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原文章由 bearbear2003 於 17 12 2008 16:39 發表
But you cannot complain $ give to your 99 & 62 because the money is not earn by you and why you accept the $ from your 99 & 62. You can reject it and improve your life by your self. 無錢就要面對現實嫁啦

Totally agree with "無錢就要面對現實嫁啦".

I have NEVER received $$ from 6299 ar...

I have not complained sharing my husband's income with them, nevertheless, we have been living like prisoners. If I were a full-time working mum with high salary, I can 「塞」 them money and their mouths la! The cost is: they must make my baby not to follow me lor..! Can't you see how many working mums have to face and pay for it?

By the way, I have started earning money with my son na...

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