我和我先生都係美國住,而我的家人全部在香港。婆婆(我媽媽)提出我的女兒俾佢照顧到三歲,但是我又唔捨得BB。如果BB跟我,佢要去day care (some strangers will watch her). My mom keeps saying that the caretake might \'abuse\' her. But who knows? She could be good or bad. Both my husband and I don\'t have any family members nearby us. My mother in law lives 3 hours from us by plane. In addition, my husband is starting his MBA soon and I wanna get my CPA to get promoted to a manger.
I am torn. Any suggestions? Please feel free to let me know.