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我囡間學校係7月頭已經放暑假,舊年6月尾已經唔洗返~

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我都試過阿囡一、二年級農曆年假前一日請假去旅行，一來團費平好多，二來諗住嗰日只係返學玩遊戲唔緊要啦！跟住學校個主任同我講唔可以去旅行而請假，不過既然比哂錢就無辦法下不為例。咁我呢幾年寧願比多D錢去旅行無再請假。

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回覆：點同學校請假去旅行？

幼稚園試過一兩日，上了小學真係吾敢，即使是學校活動。因為責任問題及實則小朋友也很重視活動，對學校有歸屬感，要參與所有活動。學校又真係要顧及整體，個個都鐘意返就返，吾返又可以，無視校规又真是很大問題。

吾明職員為何說這些不負責的話，這些敏感問題，應pass比班主任。相信班主任，不建議這樣做。需要請七天假，坦白從寛吧！

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MissMaMa 發表於 13-5-31 22:23
恕我直言, 我覺得家長不應該為了費用或天氣問題而請假去旅行, 你的旅費是便宜了, 但你給子女一個很壞的信息 ...

認同,所以甘多年我都是學校假期才去. 不是因為我大把, 而是平有平去, 唔得既我寧願唔去.

可必為金錢令小朋友覺得可以唔返學去旅行呢?

再者小一的還可原諒, 但.......

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我上年7月頭請過,老師簽完無野,今年提早6月中去,剛考完試,

見佢地唔阻上堂,又開始返半日,所以提早去,7月頭去會JOIN唔到結業禮同要買新學年新書,同埋開始暑期活動

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原帖由 cpcog 於 13-05-31 發表
本帖最後由 cpcog 於 13-5-31 22:04 編輯

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share the same thought with u. even we are talking about the local school, i encountered some schools with flexible policy. sometimes the restrictions may not because of the school policy, but because of the rigidity and the pressure from outside.
what i mean is we actually could think again 'what does education mean?'

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bebeyan 發表於 13-6-1 09:23
幼稚園試過一兩日，上了小學真係吾敢，即使是學校活動。因為責任問題及實則小朋友也很重視活動，對學校有歸 ...

呀女K1 時試過响閒日和暑假前請假去廸士尼同出外旅行, 結果兩次都發住燒咁去, 旅行果次仲要最尾個日先退燒。幾年之後到呀仔讀 N 班諗住請一日同去科學館玩下, 点知返黎之後病足十日. (唔知係咪响館內凍親) 所以呢個故事教訓我咁叫做得不償失。上天教訓我唔好無啦啦請假去玩, 等放假先去。

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Ksyy1018 發表於 13-6-1 12:17
呀女K1 時試過响閒日和暑假前請假去廸士尼同出外旅行, 結果兩次都發住燒咁去, 旅行果次仲要最尾個日先退燒 ...

有曉 d 嘢真係好邪，唔到你唔信！

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我係過唔到自己同埋真係好難同小朋友解釋點解可以唔返學去旅行，點講咁做都係唔啱！你問學校，佢一定唔可以，但你一定要咁做學校都阻止唔到你！

所以要俾多 d $$, 要同人多 d 人迫都冇辦法！

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nono76 發表於 13-6-1 09:39
認同,所以甘多年我都是學校假期才去. 不是因為我大把, 而是平有平去, 唔得既我寧願唔去.

可必為金錢令小 ...

你我想法一致, 責任感比一趟超值旅遊更重要!
但估唔到原來咁多家長覺得請假去旅行係冇問題, 非常訝異及失望!

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引用：Quote:nono76+發表於+13-6-1+09:39+認同,所

原帖由 MissMaMa 於 13-06-01 發表
你我想法一致, 責任感比一趟超值旅遊更重要!
但估唔到原來咁多家長覺得請假去旅行係冇問題, 非常訝異及失 ...

同意，教導小朋友責任感重要好多。請假去旅行係慳番好多，但影響子女觀念價值觀就係一生一世。

所以我從來無同仔女請假去旅行，放暑假先去。雖然貴d，但去得安樂開心。

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Ksyy1018 同意，責任感自小培養, 細時請假去旅行, 大個就扮病唔返工發表於 13-6-2 01:33

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好想每位家長都明白這個道理

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Lovewall 發表於 13-6-1 11:38
share the same thought with u. even we are talking about the local school, i encountered some schools with flexible policy. sometimes the restrictions may not because of the school policy, but because of the rigidity and the pressure from outside.
what i mean is we actually could think again 'what does education mean?'
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I think the issue is neither the school policy nor the pressure from outsider, but is the parents' attitude and thoughts.

You have the rights to escape from the activities after the school exam if you think such activities are meaningless at all. However, it is the decision of parents but not the fault of the school. There is no excuse to go on a trip during school days. Please don't overrule the school policy and criticized schools are not flexible.

To me, it is more important to teach the kids to be responsible than having a nice journey at a reasonable price!

To a certain extent, education means teaching and learning of the positive values that responsibility is included.

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maybe some of u have the experience that the school didn't allow you to apply leave in post exam period for travel reasons.
i agreed with that jm who is a teacher and she said their school and colleagues don't mind and understand. my family actually is the high management of school and they accept and really don't mind. their basic philosophy of education is the intellectual training, not rule-following. even there is no rule indeed in my case, the schools have no objection on travel leave.

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本帖最後由 cpcog 於 13-6-1 17:32 編輯

I guess not all people would agree with me. But I suppose we all could try to learn t o respect and listen to each other's choices and opinion (although we might not agree with each other? We don't need to support them or do the same thing)

To be fair, who is perfect?? Who dare to say they haven't done something that is so-called "irresponsible"?

All people have different point of view and value of life. We might learn to see things in the other's angle. What I want is harmony and peaceful.

What do you think about the following cases?

1. Allow the children to play mobile phone or ipad because they want some "free moment from the kids"? (such as at the restaurant, when they are talking to their friends....)
2. smoke or speak foul languages in front of the children
3. Being late to the exam or forget to take some important doc because of different reasons (such as didn't read the admission form in detail or didn't try to find the venue earlier)
4. Cancel ECA lessons due to school exam? (is it breaking the commitment in learning somethings as well??? )
5. Force the children to learn something you like or want them to learn without consider the children's real interests, time or energy?
6. complain first before knowing the real matter at school/for public exam/ restaurants....
7. wear slippers or improper clothes to parents day, exam, interview
8. do not switch off the mobile phone in the concert hall, cinema or theatre
9. keep a few pri school seats until the last minute
and so on...

If some parents do the things above. Won't it also affect children's life value and transmit some message or concept to them indirectly?? But they are commonly seen everywhere!

Indeed, while the write feels a bit bad/worried or guilty , I suppose she won't be the bad model for the child.
I can see some parents don't have any bad feeling at all when they are late for the exam!! They even would blame the veniue isn't easy to access, being late for 1 min doesn't mean anything, the words in the admission form are too small to read..... I dislike those parents even more!

At last, I believe all parents want their children to be happy and enjoy their family life.

While the fee is paid and nothing can be changed, why don't we try to bless them having a happy family trip and enjoy the time together? She is feeling bad enough and that might ruin her mood to travel.
Not many teenagers would like to go out with their parents.
(but I also understand it isn't the best model to follow and it would make some good -behaved parents feeling unfair)

I am not meaning to start a fight. Sorry if I make someone feeling angry or bad.

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