見到你既 message 都真好, 唔係因為你讚我 (太客氣了, 我只係一個多口水既媽咪 only) 而係因為自己提出既野, 係俾到家長們另一個角度, which is something that I wish to see, 對你 or others 黎講係有用既, 幫到你自行決定自己取向既, 就係最大既回報.
因此, 我絕對認為學習唔係一定出現係學校, 而係出現係 anywhere, esp in your life, 家長就係個 trainer, 如何 facilitate, 如何做 debrief, 引領小朋友係經驗中體驗出活著既價值唔係只在於讀書, 做咩級數既位, or 揾幾多錢 etc 先係更緊要, at least 我係咁諗 - but I can't control others, right? 所以, 我眼中既校長唔駛要好似寧波個位咁, 而係掉轉, 唔好係教出英國呢班二世祖咁既校長就夠了, can you see the difference here?
即如YxxK校長為求目的的做法,我便不會考慮讓孩子入讀
==> 老實講, 我唔會偏幫 YXXK, 但我信凡事總有兩面, 而人往往總喜歡講對自己有利既野, but not the opposite, 傳媒有意無意既渲染亦令事情火上加油, 我信每間學校總有一d 唔好既地方, 但同樣地, 我地都唔可以因一件事就否定佢過去既往績, 在此, 我只係 recommend 你有興趣佢既反而就去多留意 continuous evidence 先去 conclude 一間學校既合適與否先會對佢, 對自己都公平一d.