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餵了20月人奶，終於要停了！

我很enjoy餵人奶，同BB很近，還可看到她合上眼睛很舒服的樣子！但因身體轉差，医生叫食藥停人奶，自欺欺人拖了1個月，終於恨下心腸停了。BB想食，我解釋媽媽有病，要食藥，唔俾得妹妹食啦！她皺眉，但也乖乖的一切如常。以前不肯喝其他奶，現在用鮮奶+葡萄糖給她喝，她一口氣喝150ml。扭奶時，我心禱告，同BB講下故仔，今天又睡了。BB咁乖，如果我可以唔好咁急停就好了 :-(
我同自己講，媽媽能給孩子的，除了人奶外，還有很多呢！但心仍有點想哭啊！

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發表於 05-3-25 09:36 |只看該作者

Re: 餵了20月人奶，終於要停了！

Juju's mum,

Thanks for your advise. I do not bargain about the medicine I take. As I know even if the medicine that go to the breast milk is very little, I do not want to take the risk. As one of the side effects of the medicine goes to the eyes. I also weight the neccessity for me in taking the medicine. As it could be very serious to my life, I thought my health should come first..... So no denial la :cry:

I always remember the cute act of my baby of bringing her pillow and took my hand to the bedroom to sleep every night when it was the time for breastfeeding. She even excluded father by tickling him away. :-P My husband said, BB has to grow up eventaually some day. Maybe he is right

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發表於 05-3-25 13:00 |只看該作者

Re: 餵了20月人奶，終於要停了！

Hi Pandora,

你女兒好sweet啊！
我覺得你能堅持餵了２０個月已經很不容易了。正如你所說，除了人奶外，媽媽能給孩子的還有很多。現階段最重要的是養好身體，才可以好好享受親子的時光。
人生充滿遺憾，但我想正因為如此，我們才懂得珍惜吧。
祝你早日康復！

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發表於 05-3-26 00:13 |只看該作者

Re: 餵了20月人奶，終於要停了！

Pandora

其實你餵到二十個月已很捧了, 雖然我都十分支持餵人奶, 但我亦理解到若不許可亦不用勉強, 為了堅持要餵而害了身體就不值得了.

你bb很幸福, 你也是!

希望你早日康復!

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發表於 05-3-27 00:39 |只看該作者

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Oldelephant and liwoodma,

謝謝你們的安慰，今天已是戒奶第四天，BB適應得不錯，已很少扭吃奶了，只是間中輕輕的叫２聲，我解釋給她聽，她大力吞幾下口水，轉轉身便睡了。

吃了藥，反而沒那麽擔心身體，因做了自己該做的事，相比之前有藥不吃，壓力還大，因有點理虧呢！

仍餵人奶的媽媽們，繼續努力啊！能餵BB是上天給我們最最好的優待啊！

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發表於 05-3-31 17:07 |只看該作者

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Oldelephant,
I totally understand your feeling.

My baby is now 2 months old. He was mixed fed. After the delivery, I suffered from PPD (產後depression). When my baby was 1 and 1/2 months old, my doctor suggested me to take medication and this is not suitable to BF anymore. I cried in front of the doctor and said I would be even more sad if I could not BF. I chose not to take medicine but dare not let baby 埋身吃奶 since the doctor said I must have medicine if the situation gets worse. Now I pump the breast milk for my baby. But I could still remember the first nite my baby 戒埋身吃奶. He cried and cried. My 99 tried to comfort him in the living room and I cried in the bedroom. It was so sad that I would never forget. Even now sometimes when I 抱佢, he seems to search for my breast. I really miss the days.

Now I still pump the milk for him since I have to go to the doctor regularly. I am afraid that one day I must have the medicine and cannot pump breast milk for him.

Anyway, you are so great, and so as your lovely daughter. I think all of us here will support you.

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發表於 05-3-31 18:00 |只看該作者

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Pandora,
看到你的msg,我都有點想哭,你的bb很乖很乖!!很替你難受,但你都應該好安慰!!
祝你身體健康!!

oldelephant,
對啊人生充滿遺憾!!

我把平安留給你們，我將我的平安賜給你們；我所賜給你們的，不像世界所賜的一樣。你心裏不要煩亂，也不要膽怯。(若 14:27)
Happy moments, praise God. Difficult moments, seek God. Quiet moments, worship God. Painful moments, trust God. Every moment, thank God!!!

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發表於 05-4-1 14:06 |只看該作者

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Sorry, my previous message was to Pandora. Sorry for my mistake.

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發表於 05-4-3 00:06 |只看該作者

Re: 餵了20月人奶，終於要停了！

bigheadgirl,

Thanks for your support

If I understand you correctly, you are pumping milk in bottles because you worry you might have to stop breast feeding in the future if you need medication. And you feel bottles may make the transition smoother.
In my point of view, if you really want, you can let the baby 'BREAST-fed'. I understand how intimate it can be for the mother and baby to enjoy the time together. It could be a lost for you and the baby if you are preparing because you worry something which may or may not happen. If you can enjoy the time now, just take the moment. And I do believe children's adaption are better than we expected.

For the post natal depression, I think apart from the medication, positive thinking and emotional management are very important too. I know there are groups for post natal depression run by social welfare agencies. You may consider that.

For your baby, you should never give up. Take good care of yourself, think of the good side and all the blessing you have. The 'emotional' days will go eventually.

Me too, I do hope my health will get better and that I can enjoy the time with my daughter.

(No need to sorry la, I take your message completely before your clarification

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發表於 05-4-3 00:24 |只看該作者

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webjen,

對啊！經歷過餵人奶的喜悅，才明白這種心情！

我的BB停人奶不久，立即病了，還咳咳得很厲害，睡不好，咳醒，哭着說曳曳，唔要(咳)。我又想，如能餵人奶，BB會舒服很多很多，BB辛苦時，也扭過1-2次奶，我抱着她，說對唔住，媽媽真的很想給你吃，但係唔得。連我的夢也見到BB扭食奶， :-|

無奈，但最少我已盡力，打這場仗(病)，得靠她自己了！

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發表於 05-4-3 05:45 |只看該作者

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Dear Pandora,

You are a great mother to you baby, since you have made given the best to her and did the best you could to bf her. I could bf my baby for 6 months only, I felt so bad about it and missed those days too, however, as old elephant said "人生充滿遺憾，但我想正因為如此, 我們才懂得珍惜吧。"

I envy you could bf for baby for 20 months, you have done so well !

even those days of bf are gone, but there is still so much you can do for your baby !

Keep going ah !

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發表於 05-4-3 22:23 |只看該作者

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Dear jessgogo,

Thanks for your encouragement. It is so comforting to hear from you and other great mothers' support. I do feel a lot better.

Yes, we are all doing what we can for our babies. There are so much sweet memories that support us to go ahead la!

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發表於 05-4-11 10:07 |只看該作者

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pandora,
很明白你的心情,因為我的處境亦跟你一樣,不同的是我的囡囡只有2個多月,你已比我好很多.
昨天看中醫, 中醫話我身體很差,而且產後調理得不好,餵人奶對我同囡囡都唔好,而且要服中藥一段時間,經過考慮後,決定餵埋這星期,下星期比佢食埋我冰箱的存貨,佢就要全奶粉啦 :-(
做了決定後,差不多每次餵奶,望住囡囡眼淚就流出來,一來覺得對唔住個囡,二來真係好唔捨得.其實囡囡頭1個月夜晚係補奶粉,後來我做到全人奶,開始餵得順,雖然我返工後便要做假日媽咪,囡囡一至五由我媽咪湊,我只有星期六日見佢,咁我就打算做全泵型,今個月頭更開始邊餵邊泵儲貨,現在所有計劃都落空 :-( 好唔甘心
囡囡近這幾星期開始,差不多食飽時便抬頭跟我"傾偈",依依哦哦,好開心咁,每次都搞都我笑到收唔到聲,感覺由心甜出黎,望住佢食奶個樣真係好滿足,但這些片段一星期後便不會再出現,羨慕有D媽媽分享過,囝囝或囡囡會自動走埋媽媽身邊,邊掀開媽媽件衫,邊說要媽媽奶,好不溫馨,我曾幻想過我也會有這天,但現在落空了
我會好好珍惜這星期,而我一定要好好養好身體,生一下個時一定要做全人奶到bb大

對不起,分享太長了,只是我想找人傾訴,相信你們會最明白我.

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發表於 05-4-11 13:16 |只看該作者

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littlehoilun,

regret to hear this, but did you consult more doctors? i heard so many 中醫 said most of the mothers are weak, and suggested they have to stop? is it reliable? maybe i am a very stubbon guy, if i face with such situations, i would prefer to seek for advice for different professional, doctors( support bf), and to see how to improve my health rather than stopping bf. I know your difficulties, but i would suggest you seek more advice before stopping.

how poor is your health? maybe i share my experience, after my bb born, i always got sick - flu
,like every 2 months, then i started to take the multi vitamin and " veggi and fruit supplement" (from my doctor), then now i am okay. so suggest you taking some supplement and try to continous bf??

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發表於 05-4-12 11:10 |只看該作者

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monmantong,
謝謝你的回應,待我報告最新消息吧!昨天因為我不甘心,於是再另找較資深的老中醫師,佢話我係身體弱,但不是十分差,現在我要吃中藥停餵兩日,然後可一邊吃藥一邊餵奶

,聽完之後不知幾開心

現在囡囡暫時吃冰奶加奶粉,不過有時見到囡囡肚餓,都好想埋身餵,好彩只係停兩日,咁我咪keep住poump 奶囉,不過d奶唔要得,今朝"大拿拿"倒咗6安呀陰公 :-(
其實本來我一d都唔覺我身體唔好,生完不知幾精神,睇中醫只係因為皮膚一向好差,而我囡囡未滿月就患濕疹,怕係我影響佢,所以先睇中醫,第一個中醫就話我因為身體唔好影響皮膚囉,早知唔搞咁多嘢啦

我一定要努力，堅持

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發表於 05-4-12 11:36 |只看該作者

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littlehoilun,
Great to hear the good news. Take good care of yourself!

BTW, it's lucky that you went for second opinion.

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