我和我先生都係美國住，而我的家人全部在香港。婆婆（我媽媽）提出我的女兒俾佢照顧到三歲，但是我又唔捨得BB。如果BB跟我，佢要去day care (some strangers will watch her). My mom keeps saying that the caretake might \'abuse\' her. But who knows? She could be good or bad. Both my husband and I don\'t have any family members nearby us. My mother in law lives 3 hours from us by plane. In addition, my husband is starting his MBA soon and I wanna get my CPA to get promoted to a manger.
I am torn. Any suggestions? Please feel free to let me know.
No way to seperate with yr own child that far with this reason. career is important but maybe u and yr husband should think again how life could be changed with the arrival of a baby.
Yr mum is right and day care could be gd or bad. as u\'re in overseas where helpers (like maids in hk) are pricy, i think u.coulf only.choose 1. give up yr career or 2. day care
I don't think this is a good idea. Whatever decision you make, as a mom, child should always go first because you are his/her everything in this world!
發表於 
返回列表
