yes, most (but not all) of the men r the same. but u r only 31 now. u may or may not be able to find a better man in the future. but u 2 havent had sex for such a long time. he is not paying anything n he is not even talking with u. just one question 4 u to think about, what r the differences between living by urself n living with him now? pls let me no if i am being too mean
原帖由 5geng 於 10-12-1 08:25 發表
yes, most (but not all) of the men r the same. but u r only 31 now. u may or may not be able to find a better man in the future. but u 2 havent had sex for such a long time. he is not paying anything ...
佢這些年來包容了我的缺點,雖然心有怨言,但無口出惡言. as time goes by, little 心有怨言 will become a serious issues. it is good to discuss about it when there is a problem occur. 無口出惡言 but may leave u some day without saying anything.
佢每日返工放工好準時,幾時放假,邊日要OT主動交帶,唔會唔見左人。
如果佢夜晚想同朋友食飯/打波,佢都會問左我好唔好先。等等… he can add some good points by these.
雖然佢無講,我都知佢想我減肥,但我無全力去減。agree with lovelykitty
2. 我成日覺得佢冷落我,有時會比面口佢睇,比說話佢聽。like what? everyday? do u often 冷落 him,too?
3. 我成日唔聽佢意見,覺得佢講得唔啱,照自己意思去做決定。等等…does he listen to ur advice or doing the same as u? somehow i agree with lovelykitty
我:「如果你地無野,洗乜搞走辭工走佬咁嚴重?你同佢保持距離,唔好剷電話,坦坦白白,大家咪無事囉。」i would have told him to quit his job. can he only delet some of the msg n leave the unimportant msg to u? it is not good to check on his cellphone everyday as he will be more defensive n may make ur relationship worse.
我攬住佢講:「乖啲呀,你宜家係疑犯黎架,要同佢講我呷醋,大家保持十尺距離呀. i would be very defensive if i was him bcoz u said i'm a 疑犯. it makes me feel dispowering.
does angel have a bf? there r two kind of women, 1 kind of woman may leave him alone n keep a distance between her n him becoz she nos his gf doesnt like it. another kind of woman will try to have a closer relationship with him bcoz she likes to be challenge n she may becomes hate u somehow. dont force him to ring angel. she may gets angry n who nos what she is thinking about.